I hope you discover if suffering is worth it. Everything is hard in some way. It’s hard to be in the wrong relationship. It’s hard to be in the right one. It’s hard to be broke and miserable, it’s hard to achieve your dreams. It’s hard to be on the other side of change. You choose what gets your attention. What owns you in this life? Is it greed, envy, hatred, shame or guilt? Is it your desire for happiness? The past? Your fear? Your lonliness? Everybody has one thing that owns them, drives them and controls them at some psychological level. Finding the shard of empathy and hope, understanding, tucked deeply within your exisential suffering. There is a purpose to all things. Your job is not to understand why, but to make something of it.